Guess what guys, I finally get Rekha - Oh yes the actress Rekha! The same one who loves a man she cannot have or will never have no more! But then she is in love and glowing always and the woman gets bolder and crazier in love each year! But, she’s got it right - a man to love for all eternity, a man who is never there but tantalizingly around always in the mind, quite like our own one-sided crushes of yore!

The feeling lingers and if you develop it in your mind one can finally be happy in love forever!!! A love-for-keeps ya'll! And you do get a lot in this Rekhaesque situation. In your mind he is forever understanding and gentle and romantic and playful. Says the right things, is never condescending and no annoying habits to put up with either!

Hmmm sounds like a workable plan for me and I will from now on obsess about a cricketer or movie star someone I'll never actually meet and make him the ultimate lover in my mind. Howzaaaaaaaaat ya’ll? I’ll do a Rekha and still have my life and that includes dating real men too on the side. ;)

Can’t quite decide on pirate Capt. Jack Sparrow (A clarification - not Johnny Depp but Jack Sparrow) or Dhoni. Jack’s probably more fun to be with. AAAAAAAaaaaaargh!! Life’s toughest choices to be made as I swing in my hammock this Saturday… Oh well… maybe I’ll have them both… after all I’m the one who will make them what they are!

P.S. I never claimed to be sane and can’t help it the family has a loony streak or is it a case of an empty mind being a devil’s workshop? Well you decide ;)